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A flogger is an icon of BDSM and the quintessential impact implement. Incredibly versatile, floggers are typically one of the first items added to the BDSM toy-box. The sensations created by using this item can be caressing, stingy, meditative, jarring or subspace-inducing, and it depends on a range of factors like:

  • The material and weight of the flogger;
  • The force with which it is used;
  • The style in which it is used;
  • Which part of the body it is used on.

Top 10 best Floggers in 2021

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Bondage Boutique Slap 'n' Tickle Rubber Flogger
Rubber Flogger
Material: Rubber
Length: 10 inches
User: Beginner to experience
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DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger
Material: Leather
Contains latex: No
Length: 20 inches
Length handle: 5 inches
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Bondage Boutique Lace Flogger
Bondage Boutique
Material: Faux Leather
Length: 15.5 inches
User: Beginner to experience
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Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Flogger
Faux Leather Flogger
Material: Faux Leather
Contains latex: No
Contains phthalates: No
Length: 15 inches
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Bondage Boutique Rose Gold Necklace Flogger
Rose Gold Necklace Flogger
Material: Metal
Contains latex: No
Fronds: 11
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Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle
Doc Johnson Silicone Dildo Handle
Material: Silicone
Contains latex: No
Contains phthalates: No
Insertable Length: 5.5 inches
Length: 18 inches
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Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger
Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir
Material: Faux Leather
Length: 15 inches
Number fronds: 48
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Bondage Boutique Advanced Extra Long Suede Flogger
Bondage Boutique Advanced Extra Long
Material: Suede
Length: 19.5 inches
Contains latex: No
Length fronds: 13.5 inches
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Bondage Boutique Black Rose Beginner's Flogger
Black Rose
Material: Leather
Length: 18.5 inches
Length fronds: 10 inches
Contains latex: No
Number fronds: 44
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An amazing BDSM toy for beginners, floggers can potentially keep both receivers and givers interested for many years. They’re popular among BDSM couples and even vanilla couples who are looking to spice things up.

If you are thinking of getting a flogger to add to your bondage set or to explore the BDSM/kink world, there are so many options available today that making a decision might seem daunting. So, we have rounded up all the information that you need to make your choice.

Fifty Shades of Grey Satin Flogger.

What is a Flogger?

A flogger or BDSM whip is a handle with multiple tassels. It is a sexual device that replaces hands to spank or hit people during sexual encounters. The sensations vary widely, depending on the flogger type. Broadly, there are two main sensations – thudding and stinging. Thudding is a deeper sensation of striking, which is likely to create bruises. Stinging sensations, on the other hand, sits on the skin and are more painful, and can create grazes, welts or even cuts.

With any impact play, the broad rule is the thinner the surface area, the more of a stinging sensation it will create. A larger surface creates a louder sound and more of a thud.

When you’re looking to get your sex flogger, take a closer look at the tassels. A BDSM flogger with a wider or thicker tassel will create more of a thud. You can experiment with a few to find the right sensation, or you can decide between you and your partner the type of sensation that you are looking for.

If you are a beginner, you would want something with a higher number of tassels or tails. This will create a soft sensation as the impact will spread among the tails. It is perfect for first-time impact play and you can build up your preferences as you figure out what you like.

Deerskin Black and Red Elk Flogger.

Types of Fpoggers

BDSM floggers come in different types of materials and they all have their unique characteristics. Depending on the material, your experience is going to vary. Take a look at what materials are suited for beginners and which ones are for experienced BDSM couples.

Beginner or sensation play

  • Suede – Suede floggers have a vibrant texture and simply looking at them might make you feel that your fantasy is coming alive. They look like something straight out of the closet of Mr. Grey from Fifty Shades of Grey. The fibers are perfect for sensation play and they leave a biting sensation.
  • Cotton – Cotton floggers are extremely light and virtually no thud or sting. They’re great for beginners who are not sure if they would enjoy flogging.
  • Suede flogger.
  • Deerskin – Just like cotton, deerskin flogger whip is soft and it creates a very mild thud, with little or no sting. It is a good option for those who need a break from heavy flogging or enjoy light play.
  • Satin – Satin floggers are great for beginners who want to be introduced to the world of BDSM flog and spanking. It provides a sensual biting sensation and the fibers almost have a seductive feel to them. Also, you are less likely to mark the skin when using satin floggers.
  • Rabbit fur – Floggers made from rabbit fur are furry and soft. Good for beginners who enjoy light play as this causes little to no thud or sting.
Leather BDSM Flogger.

Advanced or impact play

  • Leather – Floggers made of leather are one of the most popular choices. Leather heavy floggers give a strong sensation for advanced or serious impact play. It is capable of delivering moderate to severe sting. As leather is a tough and durable material, you can use it for a very long time.
  • Latex – Latex floggers can make your BDSM flogging fantasies a reality. They bounce off the skin and gives a very strong sensation that can break or mark the skin. Also, it gives off a rubbery smell that is known to turn on those with a rubber fetish.
  • Metal – For a flogger whip, metal is one of the most hardcore materials. You should only buy a metal flogger if you are experienced. It provides a cold, strong sensation that leaves a very heavy impact on the skin. A lot of people find the sound of metal chain exciting and if you have tried all the other floggers, you might want to switch it up with a metal whip. You can even place this flogger in the freezer for cold temperature play. But, this flogger is highly recommended for only experienced players because if used incorrectly, it can cause serious damage.
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Buying the right flogger sex toy not only depends on choosing the right material, but also its length, handle, color and the tail strands. All of them together determine the sensation that will be created when the flogger falls on the skin. If you’re not sure about what kind of sensation you’re after, you might have to try a few different types of floggers before knowing the one that’s right for you.

  • Length of the flogger – The flogger’s length is important as it determines how much control you will have when you are swinging it. The longer the flogger, the less control you will have and it will start to act like a whip. The sex flogger that you choose must not be longer than your arm’s length. If you are buying flogger for the first time, it is best to start with the one that has falls or tails the length of your forearm.
  • The handle – The type of handle you choose for your flogger sex toy is a personal choice. You would something that feels comfortable to hold in your hand. If you are uncomfortable with the handle, it will take you a long time to master the tool. Some handles are specifically designed with weights inside so that the weight of the falls can be counter-balanced. When it is balanced properly, it is more comfortable and easier to swing the flogger.
  • The falls or tail strands – The quantity and width of the falls must be taken into consideration. The wider the tail strands, the more impact will be felt as they will come in contact with a lot of surface area. Also, when the falls are wide, it is easier to control as they stay grouped. You even have to consider the number of falls. When there are more tail strands, there will be more weight, and thus, more of a thud sensation.
Rabbit fur Floggers.

How to Use a Flogger?

Using a BDSM flogger correct is important as it is meant to be gratifying for both parties and not leave one bruised and hurt. Here are some of the things to keep in mind.

  • Safeword – Before you begin flogging your partner, establish a safe word. A flogger may seem harmless, but it is not. When your partner mentions the safe word, you must stop.
  • Places to hit with a flogger – You can hit on the upper back on each side of the spine, but make sure to stay off the spine. Upper butt, hips, chest and legs are other areas where you can hit.
  • Parts of the body to avoid – Stay away from all joints of the arms and legs, and the neck and head. They should never be flogged.

When you use a bondage flogger, do not randomly keep swinging it to hit your partner. Make sure that you have a nice, comfortable grip on the handle and maintain control when swinging the flogger.

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What is a flogger?
A flogger is an implement used in BDSM for torture and power play. It consists of many strands held together by a single handle. A flogger is useful in whipping or caressing your partner’s body in an erotic fashion.
How to choose a flogger?
Factors to consider when choosing a flogger include: aesthetics, your budget, material, and how you intend to use the flogger. Heavy materials tend to give a thud, while light materials give a sting. Also, the fabric is not as easy to sterilize as silicone.
How to use a flogger?
Communicate with your partner on a safe word, and how far you are willing to go. That being done, you can decide to go for cyclic flogging – which contains series of strokes cascading into patterns. Or you can go one stroke at a time.

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