Strapless Strap Ons
Lesbian couples or couples who enjoy pegging don’t have to worry anymore about whether or not their partner who is fucking will feel the same kind of pleasure. After learning how to use a strap-on with a harness, they can indulge themselves by buying an additional strapless strap on dildo which provides pleasure to both partners if learned how to use right.
What is a strapless strap-on?
A strapless strap on dildo is basically a curved dildo with two ends, and as the name implies, it of course does not have any harnesses or ties. The longer and sometimes wider dildo is used for penetrating the person being fucked, while the smaller, more nub-like dildo is supposed to be inserted into the vagina of the person fucking. This type of a sex toy requires more practice than others since it is extremely important that the person fucking possesses strong and powerful PC muscles in her vagina. It is great for lesbian or pegging couples, but keep in mind that stronger muscles are needed for the latter couple.
Types and main characteristics
Being able to automatically switch from foreplay to love making is a huge benefit for the spontaneity of your love life, but people are at first sight still intimidated by strapless strap-ons, when in fact they are fairly easy to use once you both get the hang of it. So now that you have decided that you don’t want to hassle anymore with harnesses, straps and ties the question that needs to be answered is: what is the best strapless strap on for me and my partner.
- Non-vibrating – these are best for beginners who have just stumbled into the magic world of strap-on dildos. With these strap-ons women will be able to concentrate on the motion of thrusting and plunging, as well as learn which angles are good and which are not.
- Vibrating – great for individuals who have figured out how to plow into their loved one and who now want to spice up their love life even more. There are numerous vibrating modules, from those that have removable bullet vibrators with only one speed to those who have special built-in vibrators with more speed programs and vibrating patterns and pulsations. This does not mean that beginners cannot use them, just that they should concentrate more as the pleasure can be a little overwhelming for the wearer.
How to choose the best strapless strap-on?
This depends on whether you just want the old classical pounding or you want to experience a heightened sensation of different vibrating speeds and patterns. Besides the benefit of stimulating your G-spot, you can now also stimulate your clitoris by purchasing a vibrating strapless strap-on. If you are a newcomer into the harness-free dildos maybe it is better first to purchase one without vibration because you both have to get used to this new way of having sex. If you want to bring your lovemaking into the bathroom, there are also numerous waterproof strapless strap-ons just for you aquatic lovers.
Choosing the right size for your needs
Before using a strapless strap on the couple should think about whether the wearer’s muscles are strong enough to support holding the strap-on in. It should be able to fit snuggly inside the vagina against the G-spot and hold through the motion of rocking and penetrating. If you are not sure if your muscles are strong enough, try doing Kegel exercises or buy Ben Wa balls, as they can be used to strengthen them as well. The bulb which goes into the wearer’s vagina is mostly up to 5 inches in length, whereas the shaft which goes into the receiver can go up to 7 inches, so it is up to see which size is perfect for you. Some bulbs are not straight, but rather curved and have a thickening on the top or an egg-shaped end. This is great for beginners as the angle is very important for both the wearer and the receiver. The angle with the strapless strap-on is more natural than with harnessed strap-on so the receiver’s G-spot or P-spot will get a unique massage. The curved angle is also beneficial as the strap-on will be held much tighter in the vagina, so beginners should buy those with thicker heads.
Choosing the right material, shape and texture
For replicating the most realistic strapless strap on some companies have come up with an innovative way of adjusting the angle of the strap-on for the most appropriate fit, and it is called the Flexeloc Smart System. Use it to personalize your lovemaking and make it perfect. One more advice for beginners is to buy strap-ons with larger heads as it can make the dildo more secure and sturdier. It is also up to you to decide which material suits your lifestyle more:
- Silicone– silicone is one of the most popular materials for sex toys. It is hypoallergenic and comes in every color possible so it’s great for everyone. It is also non-porous, which means that bacteria can’t stick to it as easily so it is very easy to clean. Consequently it can last you for a lifetime as long as you keep it nice and clean.
- Soft plastic or TPE – this material is great for experimenting beginners as toys made from it are amongst the cheapest ones, so if you are not sure which toy to get and don’t want to waste money, this is the material for you. Unfortunately it is porous so you have to watch out for bacteria.
- Rubber – also one of the most affordable material out there, but also very porous so we recommend using condoms or washing it with great care.
How to use a strapless strap-on?
Female strapless strap-on users may be baffled and confused when they first set sights on a strapless strap-on. It does look complicated, and users are not exactly sure which part to put where. But in truth, it is fairly easy to figure out how to operate it. The smaller part of the dildo goes inside the vagina of the person doing the fucking, and it is held by that woman’s PC or kegel muscles. She is going to use the bigger dildo to penetrate her lover either in their pussy or ass. We recommend that before delving into the exciting world of simultaneous stimulation, couples should first start with harnessed strap-ons so that the woman can become accustomed to the thrusting motion that is required of her. After she has mastered the harnessed strap-on, feel free to move on to the more adventurous strapless strap-on. Sex toys should be cleaned after each use with some warm water and mild body soap or a sex toy cleaner. For enhanced sensation always use a water based lube.
