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Sex Toys for Couples

Before the invention of sex toys for couples, there was a lot of pressure on making sex life interesting. You could get tired of the same sex position or just didn’t have enough orgasm. The pleasure from sex was limited and fantasies were difficult to create (or were not even born).

However, since the arrival of sex toys for couples, things have changed tremendously. Today, there are more options to explore for ideal sexual pleasure. If you are a couple looking for how to enhance your sexual life, then you are in the right place. Here are the varieties of sex toys you can use to add spice to your sex life.

Couples Vibrators

Vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for couples available on the market. They get things between partners heated up. Couple vibrators come in many shapes and sizes. They are also designed to stimulate different parts of the body in both the male and female. When buying couples vibrators there are some things you need to consider. Some of them include, the speed settings of the toy, if it can be used in the shower or not, the material it is made of etc. Most of the best couple’s vibrator are made of either silicone, jelly rubber, or ABS. Some couples also like to look for vibrators that make little or no noise. Because the noise from the vibrator can spoil the mood during sex.

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Sex Chair.
Hands-Free Vibrator.
Chin Dildo.
Sex Furniture.
Black Face Strapon.
Sex Machines for Women and Men.
Vibrating Strap On.
Strapless Strap On.
Strap On Harness.
Hollow Strap On.
Double Penetration Strap On.
Double Sided Strap On.
Strap On Dildo.
Black Strap-On.
Dildo Harness.
Remote Control Dildo.
Black Double-Ended Dildo.
Vibrators rabbit penis sleeves.
Penis Extender.
Yoga polyester sex swings.
Lubes for Fisting.
Tingling Lubes.
Best Queening Chair Bondage Black
Couples Sex Games.
Double Penetration Rabbit Vibrator

Vibrators for straight couples

Vibrators for straight couples include G-spot vibrators, finger vibrators, bullet vibrators and so much more. When picking sex toys for you and your partner you need to consider your partner’s preference. Purchasing a vibrator that your partner doesn’t like can be a total turn-off. You should also think carefully about the size, shape, and length of the vibrator (especially for penetrating vibrators).

Best Sex Toys for Couples.

Vibrators for Lesbian Couples

Some examples of vibrators for lesbian couples include clitoral vibrators, egg vibrators, G-spot vibrators, rabbit vibrators, nipple, and clit clamps and so much more. The things to pay attention to when picking a vibrator for lesbian couples are the shape, the size, the material/texture, and the mode of operation. You might also need to pay close attention to what your partner likes.

Vibrators for gay men couples

Male couples are open to a variety of options when it comes to vibrators for both the cock and the anus. They can either be hands-free, manual, or automatic. However, you have to consider the size of your partner’s penis before picking a vibrator. The most important rule of thumb to follow is to use a lot of lubricants (especially water-based lubes).

Top 10 Best Sex Toys For Couples in 2022

Products Information Price
Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator
Bullet Vibrator
Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free
Features: Extra Powerful, Extra Quiet
Waterproof: Submersible
Circumference: 2 inches
Insertable Length: 2.5 inches
Length: 3.5 inches
Power Type: Batteries (not included)
Flexibility: Rigid
Material: Hard Plastic
Vibration speed: Single speed
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Liberator Sex Position Enhancer
Sex Position Enhancer
Material: Velvety finish
Length: 33 inches
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Womanizer Duo Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator
G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Submersible
Power Type: Rechargeable
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Flexibility: Firm
Features: Extra Quiet, Rechargeable
Run Time: 120 minutes
Circumference: 4.25 inches
Insertable Length: 5 inches
Length: 9 inches
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Lovehoney Hot Date Remote Control Couple's Sex Toy Kit (5 Piece)
Lovehoney Couple's Sex Toy Kit
Features: Set
Flexibility: Firm
Power Type: Batteries (not included)
Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Insertable length: 4.25 inches
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Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Crystal Jellies Dildo Set
Crystal Jellies Dildo Set
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Features: Set
Flexibility: Flexible
Circumference: 6 inches
Insertable Length: 8.5 inches
Maximum Harness Size: 69 inches
Length: 8.5 inches
Material: PVC
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b-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug
Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug
Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free
Features: Flared Base, Rechargeable, Remote Controlled
Flexibility: Firm
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Splashproof
Circumference: 5 inches
Insertable Length: 5 inches
Length: 6 inches
Power Type: Rechargeable
Run Time: 90 minutes
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
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Lovehoney All You Need Bondage Kit (20 Piece)
Lovehoney Bondage Kit
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Waterproof: Splashproof
Features: Set
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Canal diameter: 1.25 inches
Circumference: 5 inches
Insertable Length: 6 inches
Internal Length: 5.5 inches
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We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Control Couple's Vibrator
Remote Control Couple's Vibrator
Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Submersible
Flexibility: Flexible
Features: App Controlled, Extra Powerful, Extra Quiet, Rechargeable, Remote Controlled
Power Type: Rechargeable
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
Insertable Length: 3 inches
Length: 3.5 inches
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Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring
Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring
Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free
Flexibility: Flexible
Waterproof: Submersible
Features: Rechargeable
Material: Silicone
Cock Ring Style: Single Ring, Stretchy, Vibrating
Length: 5 inches
Power Type: Rechargeable
Run Time: 60 minutes
Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns
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Strap-ons are another example of sex toys for couples. Some strap ons consist of a dildo and a harness (straps). While some others, called the vibrating strap ons, have no harness. Whether or not the strap-on has a strap or not, comfortability is key. For first-time couples, it is best to start slow and use a humongous amount of lube. It is also advisable to start with a little dildo.

Strap on harnesses (for those that have straps) can be made from different materials types. Vinyl can either be matte or glossy. They are also usually flexible and water-proof. Leather is another material type that a strap-on could be made of. It could also be more comfortable and long-lasting. Fabric, which is the third material a harness can be made of. It is softer on the skin and can be used in a pool or hot tub.

Vibrating strap ons can either be strapped or strapless. Most times they are designed as a dildo on one end and a vagina vibrator on the other. They can also be called the double penetration toy because both partners using it can enjoy sexual pleasure. They can either be wired with a remote control or wireless. Size, texture, and design are three things to consider before picking a vagina vibrator. Hollow strap ons are similar to a strap-on dildo. Although they are usually worn over the penis, they can be used by both male and female couples. The variations include a regular hollow strap-on that is firmly attached to the waist, a vibrating hollow strap-on those doubles the sensation, and a strapless hollow dildo. Before buying a hollow dildo for your male partner, make sure it is bigger than his penis so it will be able to put on. The material, shape, and texture of the hollow dildo are also very important for the receiving partner.

Double strap ons are another variety of strap-on sex toys for couples. They can either be double-ended (for both vaginal and anal penetration), double-headed (usually for lesbian couples), or have one head and one end. Different types of couples require different types of a double strap-on. They are made from either silicone, rubber, or plastic.

Face strap ons on the other hand, take oral sex to another level. It can be used by both males and females for stimulation, anal and vaginal penetration. Some cover the mouth fully; some exclude the tongue while some others contain a ball gag. It usually consists of a harness and a dildo. The harness is made up of leather or latex and the dildo can either be made of jelly, hard plastic, silicone, or rubber.

Before purchasing strapless strap ons, always ensure that your partner is not allergic to any of the materials. Also, make sure to clean and sanitize the adult sex toy for couples before and after every use.

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Bondage Sex Toy for Couples

BDSM might be your fantasy or maybe you want to take your sexual experience with your partner to a whole new level. Luckily, there are many options to pick from when it comes to creating fifty shades of grey sensation in your bedroom.

These options include dildo machines, Wartenberg wheels, ball stretchers, chastity belt, ball gags, anal hooks, handcuffs, bondage ropes, chastity cages, ring gags, spanking paddles, pumps (for breasts, clitoris, pussy, nipples, and penis), clamps (for the clit and nipple), cock rings, collars, and floggers. BDSM sex toys are usually made from hard materials such as steel, leather, satin, or latex.

Penis and Pussy Pumps

Penis pumps usually come with a tube, a ring for the penis base, and a vacuum. Though they are not categorized as sex toys and might look complicated at first, they are very easy to use. It can temporarily enlarge a penis. It can also increase and sustain a man’s erection during sex.


Penis pumps can either be vibrating or non-vibrating. The most popular materials used for penis pumps are ABS plastics, silicone, and rubber. Pussy pumps (similar to penis pumps), intensify the sexual pleasure of a female. It also increases the size of the clitoris, which leads to a sensational orgasm. The things to look out for in a pussy pump are the kind of material used (silicone, gel, or rubber), sucking intensity, and size.

Nipple and Clit Clamps

Clamps provide a slight pinching and tickling sensation to either the nipple or the clit. The nipple clamps can be used by either the male or female. Varieties of clamps come with a chain while others are weighted. The different types of nipple clamps include magnetic clamps, clover clamps, tweezer clamps, vibrating clamps, and alligator clamps. There are also clit clamps, these include 3-way clit clamps, crocodile clit clamps, vibrating clit clamps, slide-to-fit clit clamps, beaded clit clamps, and tweezer-style clit clamps.

Nipple Clamps for Couples.

Bondage Ropes

Bondage ropes can either be natural or synthetic fiber. Synthetic rope is stronger and easier to clean than the natural fiber, but might be slippery. Natural fiber ropes include ropes made from linen, cotton, silk, manilla, hemp, and jute. Synthetic ropes are made from the following: polyester, nylon, or MFP. The ropes can either be braided or twisted, thick or thin, multicolored or mono-colored.


Floggers create a stingy, jarring, caressing, and meditative sensation on the skin. They are usually used to spank (or create bruises during sexual play). First-timers should probably consider floggers made from cotton, rabbit fur, swede, satin, or deerskin. Advanced or experienced BDSM couples can make their choices from leather, metal, or latex. However, it is important to have proper know-how on the use of a flogger.

Chastity Cages

Chastity cages increase sexual tease and denial between couples because the wearer’s (the man’s) erection is restricted. It boosts sex drive and can be used for behavioral correction. They can be made from leather, metal, or plastic. Chastity cages have different varieties of measurements, fitting, designs, types, length, locks etc.

Chastity Belts

The female version of chastity cages is chastity belts. They hinder masturbation during teasing and build up sensual tension. They are made from steel, titanium, rubber, ABS plastics, silicone, leather, TPR, or TPE. However, people are advised against TPE and rubber because they may be toxic to the skin. Safety and proper hygiene are very paramount.

Wartenberg Wheels

Wartenberg wheels can be made from plastic, stainless steel, or chrome-plated iron. Running the wheel over the skin can make your partner go crazy, especially on very sensitive parts of the skin. It is always better to explore and experiment with the Wartenberg wheel to discover what makes your partner moan, wince or giggle. The handle provides control over speed and pressure. However, make sure not to hurt your partner.

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Mouth Gags

Examples of mouth gags include ball gags, beat gags, tape gags, dildo ball gags, muzzle gags, tube gags, ball gags with a probe, panel gags, and pecker gags. Beginners should start with soft and breathable materials. Then they can move to metal or plastic. Couples that are experienced using mouth gags can go for leather and metal materials.

Bondage Collar

Bondage collars are used for role play. They provide a sense of authority to the dominant partner (while the submissive partner wears a collar, the dominant partner holds the leash). There are decorative collars made with either copper or aluminum. They include decorations such as small beads, heart charms etc. Functional collars have fewer decorations and more hooks. Other types include protection collar, training collar, formal collar, and consideration collar.

BDSM Whips

Similar to floggers, BDSM whips provide stinging sensations when it lands on the skin. They are much thinner than floggers. BDSM whips are made from soft materials (silk, swede, and cotton) or hard materials (leather, metal, or rubber). When using a whip, create a safe word between you and your partner. Avoid hitting your partner on the neck, head, and joints.

Spanking Paddles

Spanking paddles come in varieties of shapes, materials, and types. Some are wide as a table tennis paddle while some are slim and long. They can be made from leather, wood, plastic, or faux leather. Though spanking can be entertaining, partners should be moderate to avoid harm.

Spanking Paddle satin.

Bondage mask

Sex mask creates fantasy and mystery. They can be worn by both the female and the male. They include an eye or blindfold sex mask, sex mask with a ball gag, persona sex mask, face hood sex mask, and masquerade sex mask. They can be made from latex, faux fur, leather, satin, silk, rubber, PVC, or spandex.

Bondage Kits - Fun Sex Toys for Couples

The BDSM kit is a collection of many fun sex toys for couples. They come in many colors and contain different options depending on the preference of you and your partner. Some of the items in a bondage kit include a blindfold, feather teasers, handcuffs, ropes, floggers, and mouth gags. However, before buying a BDSM kit, make sure to discuss it with your partner.

Sex Furniture - Must Have for Couples

Normal furniture such as tables, kitchen tops, and sofas can get boring and uncomfortable. Sex furniture is made to add spice to your sexual life. From pillows to swings, to chairs or couches; this furniture help to live out a couple of sexual fantasies. Some are collapsible, which makes them very easy to hide in your home or at work. Sex furniture are made from different materials such as metal, faux fur, velvet, soft plastic, and faux leather. Some are vibrating and others are full of straps. Some options help you and your partner create DIY sex furniture.

  • Sex Chairs: Sex chairs are designed with curves and handles that assist a more precise penetration and thrusting session. Sculpted with the right angles, they provide support and comfort during sexual play between partners.
  • Sex Swings: Sex swings are usually suspended from ceilings, doors, or walls. They are meant to be strong enough to have sex on mid-air. With sex swings, couples can experiment with different positions because they collect the pressure off the dominant partner.
  • Sex Pillows: Sex pillows are used to position the body in a way that can achieve the most pleasure while having sex on the couch, bed, or swing. They come in different shapes and sizes for various purposes.
  • Sex Couch: A sex couch looks just like a normal couch but with peculiar shapes and curves. It creates a different atmosphere from having sex on your bed. Though it is as comfortable as a normal bed, it can come with restraints or handcuffs.
Sex Furniture Liberator Chair.

Anal Sex Toys for Couples

For heterosexual couples who love to experiment with different styles and positions, anal sex is a great option. It is also for those who want to avoid the complications of ejaculating in the pussy. Male couples, on the other hand, are well aware of anal sex variations. The key to maximizing the pleasure derived from anal sex is a ridiculous number of anal lubes. There are many variations of anal sex toys to aid anal adventures and increase sexual pleasure between couples. Some of the many anal sex toys for couples include anal dildos, butt plugs, anal beads and anal vibrators. Anal dildos are like the usual dildos, but with a slightly different shape. They are also smaller in size. They can be used by both males and females (with or without a harness). Butt plugs are shaped like a bulb and are usually inserted into the ass for sexual pleasure between couples. They come in large, medium, and small sizes. They can be weighted, with a tail or a tunnel. Butt plugs, also called ass plugs, are worn for a small period. Anal beads are a chain of pearls or balls in varying sizes.

Couples use this toy to create amazing sensations and intense orgasms, especially when it is removed slowly. It is safe for beginners and the vibrating anal beads are extreme for experienced couples. Anal vibrators are similar to normal vibrators. They provide vibrating sensations to the anus and the p-spot. The speed of the vibrations can be adjusted using the settings on the vibrator or its remote control.

Sex Toys for Long-Distance Couples

One of the advantages of having a partner is enjoying sex together. Couple sex toys have helped couples recreate their sexual fantasies and increase their sexual experience. But how does a couple retain these sparks when they’re miles apart? The answer is sex toys for long distance couples. Sex toys like remote control vibrators and vibrating panties are some of the best couples sex toys for long-distance couples. With these, couples that are miles apart can still enjoy sexual pleasure. Remote control vibrators, as the name implies, are vibrators that are controlled remotely. They are of different types and cover varying physical ranges. For couples that are within a certain short distance apart, vibrators with physical remote are suitable. The wireless vibrators are connected over Wi-Fi connectivity.

Smart vibrators are better for couples who are thousands of miles apart. During a video call (skype call or facetime), your partner can control the vibrator using his/her smartphone, tablet, or PC. As long as there is a good internet connection, your partner can take you to the next level sexually.

Vibrating panties are a type of sex vibrators. However, they are attached to the underwear. They can also be controlled remotely over certain distances. Unlike ordinary vibrators, the vibrating panties can be worn in public places underneath the garment. This sets the ball rolling for a crazy sensational ride.

Long Distance Lush Bullet Vibrator.

Sex Toys for Lesbian Couples

Lesbian-friendly sex toys are not only limited to vibrators alone. They include dildos, strap-ons, pumps, clamps, and plugs. These varieties can be used with or without vibration. Lesbian couples could make use of clit stimulators and double penetration toys for enhanced sexual pleasure.

Sex Toys for Gay Couples

Gay couples can enjoy varieties of hollow dildos, vibrators, penis pumps, strap-Ons, butt plugs, automatic male masturbators, prostate massagers, and so on. They can also level up the sexual excitement with lube and Ben Wa balls. These sex toys for gay couples can also be used with remote control to encourage hands-free sexual activity.

Lube for Sex

Lubricants play a major role in stimulating an enjoyable sexual experience with top sex toys for couples. To avoid friction and chafing the skin, couples are advised to initiate the use of lubricants. However, it is important to discuss with your partner the topics of allergy and/or irritation before getting a type of lube. The kind of material used for sex toys also determines the kind of lube to be used. There are different types of lubricants, these include:

  1. Anal Lubes: Anal lubes are more suited for anal sex plays. They are usually made from natural ingredients such as water, oil, aloe vera, or silicone. They can also come with scents and flavors. However, be sure that your partner does not have sensitive skin. Some anal lubes also contain numbing agents that numb the skin from pain (especially when you’re a first-timer).
  2. Water-Based Lubes: Water-based lubes are made primarily from water. It can be used for vaginal or anal lubrication. Although water-based lubes have little to no effect in the shower/pool, they are long-lasting and can be easily washed off. Some water-based lubes contain glycerin and this can be infectious for some women. Therefore, it is advisable to discuss with your partner before using a water-based lube.
  3. Silicone Lubes: Silicone lubes, just as silicone erotic sex toys for couples, are very popular. They are compatible with almost just all materials but are expensive. It can be used for both vaginal sex, anal sex, and masturbation. They can be very difficult to clean, however, a small amount can last for a very long time.
  4. Flavored Lubes: If you nor your partner have sensitive skin, then flavored lube is a good idea. Apart from providing lubrication, they spice up oral sex. They can be made with sugar, sweeteners, or food extract. They are not sticky and they’re easy to wash. However, they can cause yeast infection when used frequently on the vagina.
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  6. Personal Lubricant: Personal lubricants are gel-like. They contain ingredients that are not sensitive to the skin nor damage skin cells. They are specially used for anal sex and are traditionally recommended for couples who are trying to conceive. They are made from different ingredients such as oil, water, and silicone.
  7. Natural Lubricant: Natural lubricants are more organic and soothing for the skin. They also protect the vagina and anus from infection and bacteria growth. Some have cooling and numbing effect. They are also non-toxic and are perfect for all skin types. They are made with water or oil.
  8. Warming Lubricant: This lubricant reduces friction and increases warmth. It was created to achieve the heat generated from the sex. Some of the ingredients found in warming lubricants include glycerol, propylene glycol, alcohol, some components of chili pepper, and vitamin extracts. The base ingredient can either be honey or water.
  9. Tingling Lubricant: Tingling lube contains ingredients that create a tingling effect in the vagina or anus during use. It can also be used for the massaging of the stomach and back. It is either oil-based, silicone-based or water-based. They are also very compatible with condoms.

With the aforementioned, there is no limit to the sexual fantasy that couples can create. Whether or not you are near each other, there will always be varieties of couple sex toys available to spice up your sex life. Couples should note that before using any of the sex toys or lubricants, a detailed discussion should be made on allergies, history with irritations, size, preference, etc. It is also advisable to start slow for first-time couples.

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How many couples use sex toys?
According to research, 44% percent of couples claim to have used sex toys in the past or still use them. Sex toys are necessary equipment to spice up your sex life, and many couples understand that.
What is the most popular sex toy for couples?
The most popular sex toy used by most couples is the vibrator. It comes in various colors, sizes, shapes, and materials, providing a wide range of varieties for couples to choose from.
How to use sex toys for couples?
Lubricants should be used for better sexual experience, to avoid friction during usage. Note that the material of your sex toy would determine the type of lubricant to be used. The sex toys should also be kept clean and in a cool, dry place.
Why do couples use sex toys?
A lot of couples use sex toys for better sexual experiences. They provide a wide range of options to explore one’s sexual desires and enhance sexual life. With the use of sex toys, there is no such thing as boring sex life.
Do toys for couples make sex better?
The short answer is yes. Since the arrival of sex toys, many things have changed tremendously in couples’ sex stories. Most couples now testify to having better sexual experiences with their partner.

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