Fisting lubes
The easiest and cheapest way to make a sexual experience smoother and more pleasurable is using lube. Fisting is a sexual activity that involves inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum. A fisting lube is an essential tool that will make the experience much more pleasant and satisfying. Until recent times, fisting was considered a taboo and even criminalized in some societies, today is a different case though. A person can find a lot of products which are specifically meant for that kind of sexual play. Lubes especially!
What is a Fisting lube?
Fisting Lubricants are very special products designed for extremely deep anal or vaginal penetration. Being that they are designed to aid large-scale penetration and fisting they are considered as heavy duty lubes among other types. Lubricant itself is a substance meant to reduce friction between surfaces in mutual contact, which ultimately reduces the heat generated when the surfaces move. Best fisting lubes are usually extra thick and are specially formulated for anal fisting. They have a jelly like formula and are less watery in order to stay in place and not just dripp off the hand or genitals.
Types and main characteristics
Some fisting lubes, being that they are meant to be used during hard-core activities, often by novices and people without much experience, contain within
themselves some sort of an anesthetic. The anesthetic in the desensitizing fisting lube is meant to numb the area which is going to be under a lot of pressure.
Lubricants are usually based on:
- Oil;
- Watter;
- Silicone.
They also may be specifically designed for:
- Vaginal use;
- Anal use.
Extra thick water-based lube has been specially formulated for anal fisting and unlike some other relaxing fisting lubes that are based on different formulas, are safe to be used later with condoms! But, if a person wishes to use toys along with fisting, the standard water-based lubricant might not be able to meet the needs required.
While oil-based lubes may not be useful for vaginas, they are perfect for anal fisting. Oil lubes beat water based lubes by a long shot since most toys are silicone, which means that the use of silicone lubes is not feasible without putting a condom on the toy, which doesn’t generally work especially with the larger sizes. The risk of the condom breaking and exposing the toy to the elements can be very high, which means that to use toys after or during fisting, a person should be using an appropriate type of lube.
How to choose the best Fisting lube?
Being that the dark ages of sexual experimentation and taboos are behind us, there are a lot of options on the market that you can choose from and a lot of fisting lubricant reviews that can help. Some of the top fisting lubricants are: Fist grease; Crisco; K-Creme; J Jelly.
What is the best lube for fisting? Depending on your personal preference you might want a thicker one, or a one that is more watered down. There are powdered options that are meant to be mixed with water to form the desired consistency, which is probably the best option for somebody that is getting familiar with the product for the first time.
After choosing the fist lube on a specific base (silicone, water, oil) you can also choose if you want an odorless, tasteless and colorless, or if you want something more interesting. You can also choose a numbing fisting lubricant one that has some anesthetic properties or just the regular one. There’s no secret about lubes, to find the one that suits you, you’ll need to experiment. Hypoallergenic lubes are also an option that is very popular due to a lot of people having bad reactions to the chemicals that go into the mix.
How to use Fisting lube?
Fisting, like anal sex is not something one should try at the spur of the moment. It’s certainly not something to try for the first time without preparation or putting at least some thought into it.
- Hands need to be clean and dry! This should come as a given for all sexual acts. Fingernails should also be trimmed and filed to avoid small cuts and abrasions.
- Consider a latex glove, which can make things a little smoother and more hygienic.
- The most important thing! Lube! Is absolutely a must. Fisting often requires more lube that pretty much any other sexual activity. Even if a person might think that they’ve put enough lube on both the hand and the partner’s genitals (if a person is not self-fisting), more should be applied, since one can not be too generous with natural fisting lubricant. After all, the only thing excess lube might do is make you more comfortable and satisfied in addition to making a small mess of course.
- A towel or sex blanket is great for catching any extra lube that might drip!
- After finishing your session, you should wash your hands with water and soap, or sometimes even detergent, since some lubes for fisting is really tough to get rid off.
