Last updated Mar. 31, 2023

Strap Ons

From the summiting of K2 to the moon landing, history is replete with instances of human ambition refusing to be cowed by the purported limits of nature. A strap on is one more awesome example of this, as this device allows individuals otherwise unable to engage in hands-free penetrative sex to enjoy its myriad pleasures.

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Products	Information	Price
Lovehoney Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos	Material: Silicone Waterproof: Submersible Features: Set Maximum Harness Size: 66 inches Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free Circumference: 6 inches Insertable Length: 8 inches Length: 8 inches	Check price
Strap-On Harness Kit with Realistic Dildo	Material: PVC Contains phthalates: No Circumference: 6 inches Insertable Length: 8 inches Length: 8.5 inches Maximum harness size: 52 Features: Set Waterproof: Submersible	Check price
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow Strap-On	Material: PVC Base diameter: 4 inches Canal diameter: 1.5 inches Circumference: 6.25 inches Insertable Length: 8 inches Length: 8.5 inches Vibration speed/patterns: 3/7 Power Type: Batteries (not included)	Check price
Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap-On Kit	Material: Silicone Circumference: 5 inches Insertable Length: 7 inches Flexibility: Flexible Power Type: Rechargeable Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free	Check price
Happy Rabbit Strap-On Set	Material: Silicone Flexibility: Firm Circumference: 4 inches Insertable Length: 5 inches Length: 7 inches Power Type: Rechargeable Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns Allergens: Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free Waterproof: Submersible	Check price
Lovehoney Vibrating Double-Ended Strap-On	Material: Silicone Features: Flared Base, Remote Controlled, Double Penetration Waterproof: Splashproof Circumference: 4.5 inches Insertable Length: 7 inches Length: 12 inches Power Type: Batteries (not included) Maximum harness size: 65 Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns	Check price
King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo	Material: PVC Waterproof: Submersible Base diameter: 3 inches Circumference: 6 inches Harness O-ring diameter: 2 Insertable Length: 8 inches Length: 8.5 inches Maximum harness size: 52 Kit includes: toy cleaner, lubricant, 3 x O-rings, harness and dildo Contains latex: No	Check price
Fetish Fantasy Unisex Extreme Hollow Strap-On Dildo	Material: Jelly Rubber Material Harness: faux leather Contains latex: Yes Contains phthalates: No Canal diameter: 1.25 inches Circumference: 7 inches Insertable Length: 8 inches Length: 10.5 inches Maximum harness size: 50 Oring diameter: 2.5 inches	Check price
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On	Material: Silicone Allergens: Phthalate-Free Features: Suction Cup, Set Flexibility: Flexible Waterproof: Submersible Circumference: 4.5 inches Insertable Length: 6.5 inches Length: 7 inches Maximum harness size: 65	Check price
Tracey Cox Strap-On Kit	Material: Silicone Flexibility: Firm Circumference: 4.5 inches Insertable Length: 6 inches Maximum Harness Size: 65 inches Length: 7 inches Power Type: Batteries Vibration speed: Speeds and patterns Allergens: Phthalate-Free Features: Set Waterproof: Submersible	Check price

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Many people are under the wrong impression that strap ons are uniquely the territory of the lesbian community. But, in fact, people of all genders (and orientations) can use them. For instance, pegging (an activity where a woman uses a strap on to have anal sex with a man) has recently gained a lot of traction. Straight men also use strap ons with their female partners for double penetrative sex while bisexuals, gay men and genderqueer folks find manifold uses for harnessed dildos.

If you are a first-time strap on user, this guide will help you find the right dildo and harness for yourself.

What is it?

Strapons are a two-piece sex toy that includes a dildo, which is generally a non-vibrating toy shaped like a penis. However, vibrators are also used today. The dildo is held in place by a harness. The harness attaches to the hips of the person wearing the strap on.

Strap ons are used for vaginal or anal penetrative sex. It can be worn by both men and women. They’re considered to be fantastic sex toys for couples and allows penetrative sex while keeping the hands free.

Today, when someone asks for a strap on, they’re typically referring to a strap on harness that gives the wearer control and comfort. Most of the time, the dildos can be switched in and out of a harness, which means that you can experiment with a wide range of toys.

Types of Strap Ons

Essentially, there are 2 principles types of strap ons:

Those that require harnesses or straps;
Those that do not.

Each has its respective advantages and disadvantages.

Harnessed Strap Ons

As you might have guessed, harnessed strap ons involve 2 components – a dildo and a harness. Harnesses are available in different materials and styles, such as:

Three strap or jock – This is a type of harness that loops around each leg and the waist for a comfortable fit. It offers the wearer great control. Three straps also mean greater personalization of fit. This is a popular style because it leaves the wearer exposed to other types of stimulation.
Two strap or G-string – This harness type offers a reasonable amount of control and fits with one loop between the legs and around the waist. While the G-string harness does not leave the wearer exposed, some enjoy the anal and vaginal stimulation the middle strap provides during movement.
Corset – This harness type provides additional support and cinches together at the sides.
Lingerie or underwear – Some people consider this type as the best strap on harness and this variety has recently become quite popular. It is designed to fit like a pair of regular underwear and is made available in a host of varieties, ranging from boxer-brief styles to more feminine styles. As these are strap-free, they do not offer much support and are also less suited to host heavier toys.

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There are also a variety of other harnesses available, which include thigh harnesses and also harness masks for couples who are looking to get more creative. There are some harnesses that come with built-in internal dildos or butt plugs to offer the wearer additional genital stimulation.

Strapless Strap Ons

Strapless strapon is relatively new on the scene. Typically, strapless strap ons offer the wearer a bulb to grasp the dildo internally, instead of securing it by straps. The elimination of harness makes sex feel closer with a partner and the double-headed nature of these sex toys provide both partners pleasurable stimulation with every thrust. There are some strapless strap ons that are designed with slots so that a bullet vibrator can be inserted.

The potential downside of these sex toys is that they can be quite weighty, and hence, it poses a challenge for even the most seasoned kegel black belt to hold in. Fortunately, the problem can be surmounted in different ways:

Certain positions like, cowgirl, lazy doggy and spooning are better suited to hold the strapless strap on in.
Opting for these toys with the additional support of a harness.

Dildo Types to Attach to the Strap On

Solid dildo – This is used by females only. If you are looking for a strap on dildo for female-to-male or female-to-female play, this is the one.
Hollow – This is a strapon for men who would like to experience what it feels like to have sex with a thicker and longer penis. The hollow dildo option is essentially like a prosthetic penis and can be worn over a semi-erect or flaccid penis.
Double and triple dong – A double dong attached to a harness is specifically designed to give the wearer more control during thrusts. This is designed for the females to wear and it comes with a small dildo on the interior of the harness that penetrates the vagina while she is thrusting the dildo on the outside into her partner. This also known as a double ended strap on and designed to offer dual pleasures. This toy usually comes in the strapless option, but they’re also harness compatible. A triple dong, on the other hand, is a double dong with a third one facing backward. This helps in stimulating both the anus and the vagina at once.

Other strap on dildo varieties include:

Textured dildos;
Vibrating strap on (standard strap on dildos that vibrate or some manufacturers use dildo vibrators);
Probed dildos;
Rotating strap ons;
Realistic strap on penis.

Strap On Attachment Systems

There are strapon for men and women that come with affixed dildos. Even though this is a good all-in-one option, it does not leave any room for variety. You cannot swap the dildo if you fix the dildo to be too big or small. Getting separate pieces will make sure that you have options. This is why there are strap ons that come with different attachment systems within the harness. The popular ones are discussed below.

O-ring – This is the little round ring found in front of a harness strap on. Some O-rings are sewn onto the harness while others are detachable. Detachable O-rings can be found in different sizes and you can get on corresponding the size of your dildo.
Vac-U-Lock – This is a patented system by Doc Johnson and specifically made for easily and quickly swapping dildos while using the same harness. This is ideal for those who like to mix it up with different shapes and sizes. The patented plug acts like a vacuum that helps to seal the strap on device in its place.

Compounds/Materials Consideration

Dildo Compound

Silicone – When it comes to dildos, silicone is a very versatile material. It can be flexible or firm. They’re odorless, body-safe, latex, non-porous, hypoallergenic and known to last for many uses.
Rubber – Rubber is quite a popular choice for strap on dildos because they’re realistic and flexible. They are marketed in a wide range of colors. But, it is a porous material and you need to make sure to wash it before and after every use.
Composites – Composites refer to materials that are a combination of a few types. For instance, it can be a silicone shaft with a plump PVC tip or ABS plastic core with a silicone coating.
TPE – Thermoplastic elastomer offers a good amount of durability and flexibility. This material is free of latex and perfect for those with sensitive skin.

Realistic dildo with hollow strap from the Fetish Fantasy series.

Harness Material

Fabric – This is a hygienic option as it can be washed easily. Generally, the straps are made from nylon webbing and the yolk may have a soft padding, fur yolk or fun velvet. This type of harness can be taken in the hot tub or pool.
Leather – A leather harness feels luxurious and looks sexy. It fits snugly and can last for years. With time, it is going to soften and mold to the shape of the wearer. Leather harnesses have to be hand-washed.
Vinyl – Vinyl may look glossy and shiny or it might have a matte appearance. If you look after vinyl harness properly, it can last you a long time. Harnesses made from vinyl are flexible and offer a wide range of movement. Also, they’re waterproof.

How to Use a Strap On?

The first step is to get comfortable with your strap on kit. Wearing a harness and dildo may feel weird at first. So, take your time and let your body bond with your gear.

Next, when you decide to use it with your partner, start slow. To use the strap on for penetration, make use of a ridiculous amount of lube. If your dildo is made from silicone, use a water-based lube. Also, if your partner is a newbie, it is recommended to start with a small dildo or vibrator.

So, add a strap on to your sex toy arsenal because jerking off is not just for the boys.

Why Trust Us?

So many sources galivant the internet carrying their different opinions of what types of strap-ons are the best. Why should you take our recommendations? Why do our opinions matter so much? How can you trust our selections? We believe you should regard our list of the best strap-ons because our sex experts and sex toy testers take their time to examine each of these strap-ons until they can be categorized as a great his and hers strapon. In that case, what tests were conducted? The following are the tests that our sex experts conducted on each strapon:

Safety Test: The first thing our sex experts did was to test and see how safe the strap and the dildo is. Plus, this has a lot to do with the material used to make the harness and the dildo. Allergens are tested to give users like you a heads up in the case of skin sensitivity to any material or property. Our sex experts and sex toy testers also made sure to confirm the absence of phthalates because it is the leading cause of many skin inflammation cases and infections that are being contracted today in the US and the world at large.
Confirmation Test: Secondly, our sex experts made sure to test each of the strap-on dildos to validate the alleged features mentioned with each product. Many brands fall short of this test. By trying to attract users and buyers, some of the best strapon that indicates the inclusion of a double penetrative dildo are nothing but lies. Therefore, our sex experts and sex toy testers took it upon themselves to not only select these toys based on their appeal. Each strap-on for him and her was tested for days to ensure that a waterproof strap-on for her stays waterproof, and a vibrator strap-on truly has a vibrator.

Strap Ons and Other Sex Toys

Strap-ons are the only sex toy components that allow you to attach break the laws of nature and attach a dildo to your pelvis when you originally don't have one. Though a suction cup dildo gives you the chance to have sex by yourself using the wall or the ground as a prop, strapons are for him and her kind of sex. In this case, the ‘him’ and ‘her’ do not necessarily refer to a man, and a woman. The best strap for him and her are widely adopted by homo- and heterosexual beings. Nonetheless, even the best strap-on has a limitation - it can only be used by couples. Having a dildo strapped onto yourself for a me-time might not be the best idea. So if you are more excited about your private time, you can other sex toys. The suction cup dildo is a great alternative.

How To Choose the Best Strap On

Pick the type of strap that appeals most to you. While basing your decision on appeal, put into consideration your experience level as well. If you have a good experience with strapons then you can think of going strapless. But if this is your first time, you need your strap-on to be a little bit more secure - so choose a harness.
Your Gender also decides for you sometimes. For instance, if you have a penis, you might not be able to use all types of strap-on dildos. The hollow dildo type would be best for you since it allows you to insert your penis seamlessly.
Consider your Quirks. What have you always fantasized about? What is that one thing you have always wanted to try? Even if you believe you have it all, there is most certainly one extra feature you are yet to try. With the best strap-on for him and her, you are bound to have a variety of options. You can go from huge dildo sizes to more medium and average girths. There are also realistic textured strap-on dildos and very colorful ones. In the same way, you can decide on the king of harness you want - the ones that look like undies or the ones that give a leather BDSM vibe.
Detachable or Non-detachable strap-ons are also things to think about. While some dildos are sewn into the harness, some are detachable and allow you to swap between different dildo styles and shapes depending on your and your partner’s current desires. The section about strap-on attachment systems explains this better but if you were faced with an option between the two, here is what you need to know. Choose the detachable if you have a lot of other strap-on dildos to swap with. But if you cannot allow for dangling attachments, pick the sewn-in designs.

Pros and Cons of Strap Ons

Can be used for pegging.
Strap Ons can add an extra bit of spice to your sex life.
Strap Ons can be used for anal or vaginal penetration.
Strap Ons can be worn by people of any gender.
Some people may find them uncomfortable to wear.
If the straps are not adjusted properly, they can slip off during use.
Strap Ons can be pricey, depending on the style and materials used.

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FAQ

What are strap-ons, and what are their primary uses?

Strap-ons are adult toys that consist of a harness and a dildo, which can be worn by one person to penetrate their partner. Strap-ons are used for various purposes, including vaginal or anal penetration, pegging, or role reversal in heterosexual or same-sex relationships. They can add variety and excitement to a couple's intimate encounters, allowing them to explore new sensations and experiences.

How do I choose the right size and style of dildo for my strap-on?

When choosing a dildo for your strap-on, consider factors such as your personal preferences, your partner's comfort level, and the intended use. It's essential to select a size and style that both you and your partner feel comfortable with, taking into account factors such as length, girth, and texture. Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and boundaries to ensure a positive experience for both of you.

What materials are strap-ons and their dildos made from, and why does it matter?

Strap-on harnesses are typically made from materials such as leather, nylon, or neoprene, while the dildos can be made from silicone, TPE, PVC, or glass. It's important to choose body-safe, non-toxic materials that are easy to clean and maintain. High-quality materials ensure durability, safety, and a more enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.

How do I find the right harness for my body type and comfort level?

Harnesses come in various styles, such as thong-style, jockstrap-style, or underwear-style, each providing a different level of comfort and support. When choosing a harness, consider factors such as adjustability, material, and fit. It's important to find a harness that fits your body type securely and comfortably to ensure a positive experience during use.

Can I use a strap-on for both vaginal and anal penetration?

Yes, strap-ons can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration, provided the dildo is compatible with the intended use. Make sure to use a condom or properly clean the dildo between uses to prevent the transfer of bacteria. Additionally, use an appropriate lubricant for the type of penetration to ensure comfort and safety during use.

How do I clean and maintain my strap-on and its dildo?

To clean your strap-on harness, follow the manufacturer's instructions, which may include hand-washing or machine-washing, depending on the material. For the dildo, wash it thoroughly with warm water and a toy cleaner specifically designed for adult toys. Allow both the harness and dildo to dry completely before storing them to prevent the growth of bacteria.

Are there strap-ons designed for specific gender or body types?

Yes, there are strap-ons designed for various gender and body types, including harnesses specifically designed for people with penises or those with curves. When shopping for a strap-on, look for harnesses that cater to your specific needs and preferences, ensuring a comfortable and secure fit during use.

How do I introduce the idea of using a strap-on to my partner?

Communication is key when introducing the idea of using a strap-on to your partner. Discuss your desires and fantasies openly, and listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings about the subject. It's essential to approach the conversation with sensitivity and respect, ensuring that both you and your partner feel comfortable and heard.

Can I use a strap-on for solo play?

Yes, some strap-ons are designed for solo play, allowing individuals to experiment with different sensations and experiences on their own. Strap-ons with suction cup bases or those compatible with harnesses that feature a built-in pocket for a bullet vibrator can provide added stimulation during solo play. Using a strap-on for self-exploration can help you become more comfortable with the toy and improve your technique before introducing it into partner play.

What type of lubricant should I use with my strap-on and its dildo?

The type of lubricant you should use with your strap-on and its dildo depends on the material of the dildo. For silicone dildos, it's recommended to use a water-based lubricant, as silicone-based lubricants can damage the material. For dildos made from other materials, such as TPE, PVC, or glass, you can use either water-based or silicone-based lubricants. Always ensure that you use a sufficient amount of lubricant during strap-on play to ensure comfort and reduce the risk of injury for both partners.

What is a double-ended strap-on and what are its benefits?

A double-ended strap-on is a type of adult toy that features a dildo on both ends, allowing for simultaneous penetration of both the wearer and their partner. This type of strap-on can be used for vaginal or anal play and can enhance intimacy by providing shared pleasure during use. Double-ended strap-ons can be a great option for couples looking to explore new sensations and experiences together.

Are there vibrating strap-ons available, and what are their benefits?

Vibrating strap-ons are available and feature either a built-in vibrator or a pocket for a bullet vibrator in the harness or dildo. These strap-ons provide additional stimulation for both the wearer and the receiver, enhancing pleasure during use. Vibrating strap-ons can be an excellent option for couples looking to add an extra layer of excitement to their intimate encounters.

How can I make using a strap-on more comfortable for my partner and me?

To ensure a comfortable experience for both you and your partner, take the time to properly adjust the harness for a secure fit and choose a dildo that suits your preferences and comfort levels. Additionally, using a high-quality lubricant can help reduce friction and discomfort during penetration. Open communication about your desires, boundaries, and any discomfort that arises during use is crucial for a positive and enjoyable experience.

Are there strap-on kits available for beginners?

Yes, there are strap-on kits available specifically for beginners, which typically include an adjustable harness and one or more dildos in various sizes and styles. These kits are designed to help newcomers explore strap-on play in a comfortable and accessible way, allowing them to experiment with different options and find the perfect fit for their needs and preferences.

Can I use a strap-on for oral sex or deep-throating practice?

Yes, strap-ons can be used for oral sex or deep-throating practice, providing a safe and controlled way to explore and develop your skills. It's important to communicate with your partner about your comfort level and boundaries during this type of play and use an appropriate amount of lubricant to ensure a more enjoyable experience.

Can I use a strap-on for temperature play?

Temperature play can be incorporated into strap-on play if you're using a dildo made from a material that can safely retain heat or cold, such as glass or metal. To engage in temperature play, warm or cool the dildo in a bowl of water before use, ensuring it's not too hot or cold to avoid discomfort or injury. Remember to always test the temperature on a less sensitive part of your body, like your wrist, before using it on more sensitive areas.

Are there strap-ons designed for packing or for transgender individuals?

Yes, there are strap-ons designed specifically for packing or for transgender individuals, which can be used for both aesthetic and functional purposes. These strap-ons often feature realistic designs and materials, as well as comfortable harnesses that can be worn discreetly under clothing. Discuss your needs and preferences with a knowledgeable retailer to find the most suitable option for you.

Can I use different dildos with my strap-on harness?

Yes, many strap-on harnesses are compatible with a variety of dildos, allowing you to switch between different sizes, styles, and materials based on your preferences and needs. When choosing a dildo for your harness, make sure it has a flared base or is specifically designed for use with a strap-on, and that it fits the O-ring or attachment system of your harness.

How can I practice using a strap-on before trying it with my partner?

Practicing with your strap-on before using it with a partner can help you become more comfortable and confident during intimate encounters. You can practice wearing the harness and adjusting it to fit securely, as well as familiarizing yourself with the weight and feel of the dildo. Using a pillow or a similar object, you can practice different thrusting techniques and angles to develop your skills and control. Additionally, open communication with your partner and discussing your experiences during practice can help ensure a more enjoyable experience for both of you when the time comes to use the strap-on together.

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12 Comments

23.08.2021, 11:30

Grace Wallace

Oh, my goodness! There is absolutely everything to admire about the strap on. It’s the most convenient sex toy to use together with a partner. I prefer to use the strapless strapon, and that’s because it provides me a wildly sensational experience every single time, no exception!

18.09.2021, 23:56

Anthony Harrell

There are four different styles of the strap on available on the market. I would like to ask which of them provides the best experience?

20.09.2021, 09:17

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Hi Anthony. The question of providing the best experience largely depends on which is more convenient for you. The most common strap on sex toys are the three-strap and the two-strap. However, the underwear strap on style is already gaining some popularity. Just make sure to look through user reviews before making your purchase.

23.10.2021, 20:39

Aliza Robinson

I started exploring the strap on as a newbie, so I was looking to go for a beginner strap on. I intended to start from small strap ons, but then I came across the Deluxe strap-on harness kit on here. I was delighted to find the combination of both the beginner dildo and advanced dildo in one single product. The decision to make the purchase has proven to be very rewarding for me. Now, I use the advanced dildo very conveniently. The harness is also fully adjustable, giving me so much room for flexibility. This is an intriguing sex accessory. I am overjoyed to own one.

28.10.2021, 01:34

Matthias Fernandez

I have read through this article twice now! Haha. It’s just interesting for me to read about these sex accessories, and you guys always deliver.

02.11.2021, 00:04

Tabitha Zimmerman

Frankly, I am deeply intrigued by all the good reviews for this sex accessory. I have heard a mouthful from my friends about them owning the best strap on, and my partner also goes on and on about purchasing the strap on for women. Yet, I am still highly skeptical of all these adulations. It’s quite rare to find any sex toy that lives up to the hype these days.

06.11.2021, 10:56

Paige Houston

Hey Tabitha, I started out being quite cynical about sex toy reviews also. But I recently made a purchase for a vibrating strap on, and it was worth every dime! I don’t suppose that you have anything to fear once you have the right size and material.

11.11.2021, 14:59

Luciana McNeil

What is better than a strap on sex toy? A double-ended strap on sex toy! And that is the one I went for. Oh Lord! It does wonders to me, and more wonders to my partner – at the same time! The double duty vibrating double-ended strap-on dildo is the eighth wonder of the world. The speeds and patterns are staggering, and it has a wired controller that makes the experience a very exciting one.

16.11.2021, 14:12

Stephen Nelson

I always had the impression that the strap on was only suitable for lesbian women. But now, I know better. Guess who’s getting ready to place an order for the hollow strap on lol. I would really appreciate more articles like this one from y’all.

20.11.2021, 19:29

Sammy Velasquez

I use the strapon for men occasionally, it’s just okay. I don’t particularly find the experience as realistic as I would have preferred it to be.

25.11.2021, 15:02

Kyleigh Curtis

I would need some clarity; between the O-ring and the Vac-U-Lock by Doc Johnson, which is the most preferable method of attachment?

26.11.2021, 19:30

Hello Kyleigh, this depends on your usual sex practice. If you are used to changing dildos while the act is in full swing, then the Vac-U-Lock is best for you. However, if you are more conservative with the amount of dildo swapping you do, then you can just go with the O-ring.

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