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With the turn of events since the last decade, it’s evident that sex furniture has come to stay, and we love it! From BDSM cages down to sex pillows, BDSM furniture has dramatically improved the sex lives of people all over the world. BDSM beds have become so popular in the last decade that your famous sex dungeon is incomplete without them. I mean, who’s a kinky person without a bondage bed to show for it? Restraining a bratty sub now has more appeal than ever because your form of bondage is not only sexual but also artistic. Let us help you explore your kinky side with our best beds for bondage listed below. Get into it!

Top 6 Best BDSM Beds in 2022

These top mentions of the best BDSM beds are not only our favorite kinky selections but also recommendations that our sex experts and sex furniture testers believe are the most exciting and durable.

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THE DORE ALLEY DUNGEON BED
Dungeon Bed
Full Size Bed: 55 x 80 x 84 inches
Queen Size Bed: 61 x 80 x 89 inches
Eastern King Size Bed: 77 x 80 x 89 inches
Cal King Size Bed: 73 x 80 x 93 inches
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HAMMERED STEEL COFFEE TABLE/ CAGE.
HAMMERED STEEL COFFEE TABLE/ CAGE
Cage: 38 Long x 24 Wide x 20 Tall
Top: 42 x 28
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PADDED SPANKING BENCH
Spanking Bench
Features: Made-to-Order
Includes: knee rests
Allergens: vinyl
Used with: rope, chains, cuffs
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BONDAGE PADDED BARREL HORSE
Bondage Horse
Material: Aluminum
Diameter: 24 inches
Attachment points: 22
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PONY PLAY SPANKING HORSE
Pony Play Horse
Features: Made-to-Order
Includes: English leather stirrups, reins, an adjustable kneeling pad, and a black saddle
Used for: flogging, spanking
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What is it?

A BDSM bed is a BDSM furniture used to restrain a person during kinky foreplay and sex. It is any type of bed that can hold someone down. Designed similar to a regular bed, but this time fully fitted with cuffs and gags for full-body restraint. With BDSM beds, the sub is forced to savor the painful pleasure inflicted by the Master/Mistress without struggle. A bondage bed will improve the quality of your kinky play by far.

Whether it’s for intense temperature play or a good old spanking, a bondage bed will serve every one of your sadomasochistic needs. Whether you’re the dom or sub, introducing a bed into your kinky relationship will revolutionize the intimacy between you and your partner. Surrendering yourself to be restrained on a fetish bed shows complete trust and total submission to your dom’ will. What better way to be submissive? None.

Four Post Canopy BDSM Bed Frame.

How the list of Bed BDSM was compiled

You might think “why should you believe our list?” “What makes them better than other bondage beds out there?” The answer is this: the beds weren’t selected because they look good but because they passed a series of tests. These tests are to ascertain their durability, utility, convenience, and allergenic presence/control. Read further for more information on how these tests were conducted.

Durability Test

Durability is the backbone of every good BDSM bed. If it won’t last long, it cannot belong on our list. That is why our sex experts and sex furniture testers evaluated the maximum weight capacity it can hold, how it fares when rigorous sex activities are being performed on it, and how it behaves with different sexual positions. Beds with chains and locks were also checked to ensure that the chains were tight enough (but not too tight). It would be a bummer if your sub were to break loose during your hot spanking session.

Utility Test

Also important is the test of satisfaction. Our sex experts and sex furniture testers made sure to ascertain that these bondage bed frames were just what you need and desire. For it to be called an item of sex furniture, it has to aid numerous sex positions with ease. So our sex experts have tried various sex positions (even the ones you are yet to explore), and after they have validated their utility, they became a part of our list. So the selections you see up there are not just eye-catchy, but they can guarantee you an unforgettable experience while playing sub and dom.

Convenience

Similarly, each enlisted bondage bed was tested to ensure ease of mobility, cleaning, and storage. For those that might be too heavy to move around, our experts asked themselves how discreet it was before including them on the list. Until a BDSM bedframe is easy to clean, move around, or can be discreet if it is immobile, it won’t be enlisted. You can learn more about the cleaning and storage of a BDSM cage bed in the sections below.

Allergenic Presence and Control

Also very important is how safe the BDSM bed is. Though there is an entire paragraph about the safety regulations while using sex beds, we ensure that the material used to make these beds were safe for the skin. Allergens like vinyl and so on were tested to check for their presence. Our sex experts and sex furniture testers made sure to indicate the presence or absence of these allergens to alert you when you want to make a purchase.

Why BDSM beds are different

Many items of sex furniture are existence, but they don’t match up to a sex bed. It comes in different shapes and designs (soon to be elaborated on), and they are used for different purposes. Some are larger with a BDSM bedframe for sexual, kinky adventures, others are simple chair beds, that are carved out artistically to make certain sex positions easier to achieve. Though you can use Bondage beds independently, they are best with ropes, chains, beaters, and other BDSM sex toys. You can also make things a little extra by adopting your sub's most addictive sex toys. Vibrators and anal toys will make a great start.

We’ll discuss the types of BDSM beds in three categories; their materials, shape, and size. Here we go:

  1. Material: A BDSM bed is typically made of high-density foam encased in a leather or nylon cover. You can also find a latex bondage bed, which is ideal for subs who are more experienced in bondage play. A bondage bed frame is either made of wood or metal, making the bed a wooden bondage bed or a metal one. If you’re a newbie in the art of bondage and submission, it’s best to start light with a leather/nylon encased bondage bed.
  2. Shape and Design: BDSM beds have a rectangle/square shape, just like regular beds. However, the elements of their design distinguish them from the standard sleeping beds you know. The bondage bed frames are equipped with bondage bed restraints such as inbuilt hooks, cuffs, and straps for intense BDSM play. They also have crossbar and rail hoops overhead, on which the cuffs are fastened. These bondage bed restraints may be detachable or not, but if the bed is multipurpose, then the restraints should go below.
  3. Size: You need a BDSM bondage bed that fits your size, especially if you prefer a BDSM cage bed. An average BDSM bed stands at is 6 feet long and has a width of 3 feet.
Non Four Post BDSM Bed. Choose BDSM Bed

How to Choose the Best BDSM Bed?

Step 1: Discuss with your partner

The first thing to do is to communicate your likes and dislikes with your partner. Talk about the sex positions you would love to try on the bed, the kind of fetishes he or she might have, and so on. You should also put into consideration the different skin sensitivity requests you might have. Since bondage beds are designed with different materials, make sure to discuss what material is best suitable for both of you.

Step 2: Decide on the storage spot

While some BDSM beds are large, others are smaller and more portable. By deciding on where you want to keep your bed, you would know the dimensions to look out for. Sex beds go from small and compact sizes that cannot fit your whole body to floor mats. But if you have the space for it, you can opt for king and queen-size BDSM cage beds. It’s more fun anyway.

Step 3: Settle with a budget

Finally, but not the least important is your budget. Various BDSM beds are sold at different prices depending on the brand, size, features, material, and so on. While you consider how big or small you want your bed, and the material it will come in, also pay attention to how much it will cost and if it agrees with your budget.

In your mind, you’re probably asking us to cut the long talk and tell you how exactly to purchase the best BDSM bed to suit your sexual preferences and lifestyle. Well, here we are with tips to help you buy the best bondage bed you can afford.

  • Communicate with your dom/sub and find out their opinion about a BDSM bed.
  • Decide on a material that is safe for you.
  • If you’re new to extreme bondage, your bed should be encased in nylon or leather.
  • If your bondage bed is multipurpose, then the restraints should fit under the bed.
  • Shop with your partner.

How to Use?

We would love to say, ‘go with the flow,’ but with the extremity of bondage play, you might need a little help to pull through.

Safety Regulations

Go slow. Whether engaging in temperature play, humiliation, praise, and degradation, it’s better to allow the tension to build up over time. The bondage bed is yours to use, so don’t be in a hurry to clasp your sub to prevent injuries on either of you. Establish safe words with your partner, and use them if you feel things are getting to the extreme. When strapping a sub to the BDSM bed, ensure that the straps are not so tight that they cut off airflow or blood circulation.

Luxe BDSM Bed with Canopy.

Cleaning

After every intense sex session, take the covers off your bondage bed and soak it in soapy water for a few minutes, then wash off. Allow the cover to dry out in the sun. The foam and the bedframe do not require frequent cleaning. Pay attention to your purchase’s packaging/product description, as it may come with specific cleaning instructions.

Storage

At this point, you should be considering a sex dungeon of your own. That’s the only space that can accommodate furniture as big as a BDSM bed. Your dungeon should be clean and airy to prevent damage to the bondage bed.

Advantages and Drawbacks of BDSM Beds

  • A bondage bed can spice up sex between a vanilla couple.
  • BDSM beds make power play interesting.
  • Submitting to torture on the bondage bed emphasizes the place of both dom and sub in the bedroom.
  • A bondage bed improves trust and intimacy between partners.
  • Bondage beds make roleplay and BDSM more interesting.
  • It can help build trust and intimacy between partners.
  • It is an effective way of spicing up sex amongst lovers.
  • A BDSM bed heightens the sub’s sensitivity leading to better orgasms.
  • BDSM beds can cause a feeling of unease for newbies.
  • BDSM beds might not be appropriate for beginners.
Dungeon BDSM Bed.

Concluding remarks

Introducing a BDSM bed in your relationship is a good way to spice up the vanilla sex or light bondage you used to enjoy. Whether you’re looking to add more accessories to your sex dungeon or just looking to dip your toes into the BDSM river, our top multipurpose BDSM beds work great for mad sex and a good night’s rest right after.

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References

FAQ
What is a bondage bed?
A bondage bed is a fetish bed used to dominate a sub by restricting them to the bed with straps and cuffs. It keeps them exposed and unable to move, leading to heightened sensations of pain and pleasure.
How to tie someone to bed?
Tying someone to a BDSM bed depends on the position you want them in. If it’s a lying position, then have the sub lie on the bed, face up or down, then fasten their hands and legs to the restraints attached to the bed. Adjust the ties to fit a kneeling/standing position.
How to use bed bondage?
In bed bondage, fasten the sub to the bedframe and keep their genitals exposed, doing with them as you please. You can add some temperature play, spanking, clamping to make bed bondage more intense. The goal is to have you and your partner sighing with pleasure towards the end.
How Big Is a Bondage Bed?
A typical BDSM bed measures 3 feet in width and 6 feet in length. However, there is a possibility of customizing your BDSM bed to the size most fitting for you. A bondage BDSM bed could be a full-size, queen-sized, eastern king, or California king bed. It all depends on your space, taste, and preferences.
Can I Use A BDSM Bed for Sleep?
Yes, it is possible to use your BDSM bed for sleep. However, it is essential to note that it can get uncomfortable, particularly if you’re sleeping restrained to the bed.
What Additional Equipment Can I Use with A BDSM Bed?
The BDSM bed can be equipped with as much kinky equipment as you want for your BDSM play. The bondage bed frames could be equipped with collars, cuffs, hooks, straps, and as many restraints as possible. Some can also be designed to include rail hoops, and crossbars to which cuffs could easily be fastened. You can always use any equipment you wish to use with your BDSM bed as there are no restrictions attached to using them.

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