Allow us to introduce you butt plugs – the adult toys you can enjoy regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, or genitalia. If exploring anal play is on your list of interests, starting with a small butt plug is definitely a good idea.
The anal area contains a relevantly high concentration of nerve endings, which should speak for itself why so many people enjoy anal sex or use toys for the purpose. Butt plugs are the best toys to start exploring this erotic region, but many manufacturers are creating anal plugs for advanced users as well. Check out Kinkazoid’s top 10 butt plug selection below.
Icicles Glass Flower Butt Plug
njoy Pure Plug
Doc Johnson TitanMen Large Ass Servant
B-Vibe Triplet Remote Control Vibrating Anal Beads
LuxGem Beginner’s Metal Butt Plug
Lovehoney Full Bloom Large Rose
Glams Large Butt Plug
Lovehoney Jeweled Heart Metal Beginner’s Butt Plug
Doc Johnson Red Boy Extra Large
Doc Johnson Titanmen The Rumpy Smooth Butt Plug
Here’s What to Consider When Choosing Your Butt Plug
Before going to more detail, the most important thing to consider is if the toys are safe to use. Don’t make the mistake of blindly trusting the label that says “best anal sex toy” because many manufacturers produce toys that are not safe for use.
The Stopping Point
First, you have to make sure that the base is wider than any other part of the toy. This is called the stopping point and its purpose is to stay outside of your body so you can remove it easily. In other words, you don’t want to end up with a toy that is stuck inside of you and believe it or not, this happens quite often to people.
The Right Size
If you’re having a hard time deciding between 2 sizes, go for the smaller one. You’ll find that most of the beginner anal toys out there are meant for slowly training your body and upgrading in time. The best “first test” is to use your fingers and get a toy similar to that size. The most common sizes butt plugs for beginners start with, range between 0.75 and 1.25 inches in diameter. After you feel comfortable with one size, you can purchase a bigger one.
Think About “Where”
The difference between long-term wear and a little diversity with your loved one is enormous when it comes to anal toys. You’ll notice that many butt plugs are very slender with little or no curve at all. For some, these are the best prostate sex toys, while others prefer the standard shape. The thing with the slender type is that it may seem like it is about to fall out easily. If this is the case, you can always try wearing a butt plug harness. While this may not be the perfect application during intercourse, you’ll find that smaller toys can be enjoyed for long-term wear during your casual everyday routine.
Pro tip: Tight underwear also helps to keep that plug inside!
Materials can be glass, wood, plastic, rubber, silicone, jelly, phthalate, and many others. It’s important to mention that phthalate products are everywhere, and many new research pieces have documented their wide-ranging negative health impacts. If you could spend extra cash on any other material, that’s probably a smart choice. Other than that, when it comes to anal toys, you should always think about the maintenance. Especially if somebody else will be using the same toy. If this is the case, consider materials that can be sterilized without being damaged such as silicone and glass are the perfect choices.
Pro tip: Look for something flexible
While you’re still on choosing the perfect material, you should definitely include a rigidity quality into consideration. A rigid toy will bend with your own movements and this is definitely something that matters. This will open a whole new world, especially if you’re interested in intense orgasms.
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Set of Butt Plugs
If you are hoping to use your toy to work up to penetration with a penis, considering a butt plug set is a great idea. As mentioned earlier, you should progressively work up to a larger size, and plug sets are specially designed for that. The way you make progress should be totally up to you and your limits. You can get to your desired size in just one session or multiple ones.
Choosing the Lube
Okay, now that you’ve made up your mind whether you want butt plug underwear or just a regular plug, it’s time to choose your lube. This is a matter of personal interest. Some prefer lube based on water for its easy-to-clean abilities while others favor the silicone-based lubes because of their reputation to last long. Another important thing to consider about silicone-based lube is that it may not play well with silicone-made toys. Water-based lubricant, on the other hand, is compatible with all anal toys and pretty much all materials.
The smart thing to do when choosing a lube is to check if there are any recommendations from your chosen toy manufacturer. Also, if you’re already using a lube of any kind, check the label to know what are you working with.
Using a Plug
A plug is designed to go in and stay in for the duration of its use. Of course, you could maneuver a plug in and out if you wanted to, but the original idea of plugs is different. The tapered shape of these toys allows them to be retained inside the body and worn comfortably. Whether during a night out or during intercourse (this is a personal preference), here’s what you should know about using a butt plug.
Never neglect foreplay. Try the activities you know you enjoy to get your body turned on and receptive to a new kind of stimulation. If you’re dealing with a larger size toy, you could start by lubing a finger and start circling your anus with it. At this point, you should be able to gently glide it in and out. Once this feels comfortable, you can slide another one.
As soon as you feel confident enough, you can start lubing your toy. Many people find it easier to slide all sorts of objects, whether prostate massage toys or dildos in a bent over, doggy-style pose. However, our bodies are all different, so something else may work better for you in particular.
The key here is relaxation. There are two muscle rings around the entrance of the anus known as the sphincter. You want to be gentle with them when inserting anything, including an anal toy, into your butt.
When you’ve had enough play, gently pull the plug (breathing slowly and steadily helps). You can also ask your partner to pull it out for you. Keep in mind that it’s easier to remove a toy if you have reached orgasm as this relaxes the pelvic muscles.
Cleaning & Maintenance
The first thing to do after you have finished the play is to wash both your hands and the butt plug with soap and warm water. Depending on the material, you may try different methods to sterilize your toy (boiling, dishwashing, applying specialized products on it, etc). Another great tip, no matter how kinky it may seem, you should not transmit bacteria from the anal to your vagina as it may get infected.
Butt Plugs Open a New Door to Prostate Stimulation
If you’re a man, you should know that firm and curved toys are perfect for hitting that P-spot. Using such plugs guarantees achieving and maintaining constant pressure on the prostate (something you can’t quite mimic with a finger or penis). This is what makes many male butts plugs the most preferred anal toys among men.
You Can Hit the G-Spot as Well!
Whether you have a vulva or not, you should know that some butt plugs can indirectly stimulate the G-spot. The lining that separates the anal and vaginal canals is really thin and the properly shaped toy is great for double pleasuring. In fact, many women prefer this method due to the fact it’s not as intense on their G-spot as it would have been through direct stimulation.
So, Who Buys Butt Plugs Most Often?
Of course, it’s difficult to gauge how many people use or have tried butt plugs worldwide, but our analysis of over 300,000 people found that the biggest butt plug sales come from single and attached gay and bi men (over 60%). Single straight women are demographic with the smallest butt plug purchase (a bit over 10%). Also, single straight men buy plugs at nearly twice the rate of single straight women.
However, these numbers could be easily overlooked as many of the purchases could be gifted and not meant for personal use. The truth is, all genders can benefit from butt plugs if they’re into it!
We at Kinkazoid hope that this guide has helped you not only to make a good purchase of your first butt plug but gave you a bit of idea on how to play with it and achieve great results. What’s important to remember here is that anal play might be difficult to master and requires bravery and lots of experimentation. What’s even more important is that everyone is different and something that works for others may work not entirely work for you but keep trying until you find the please you’re looking for. Our advice is to relax and everything else will come together!
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